It has been hard to see Arlene's health deteriorate, especially over the past two years but I'm happy she is at peace and that she and Michael rest beside our father and that I have so many good memories to look back on in years to come.
We had a lot of fun growing up, two sisters and two brothers, close in age, spending a month every summer in Quebec, and within the United Church, where our father worked. She loved fishing in the brook behind the house in Metis in the summer, reading English literature, her friends, but her children, Adriane and Riley, most of all. She and Michael loved each other for more than 35 years, spending holidays at cottages, and hosting visitors. While they lived most of that time in the small eastern Ontario town of Deep River, she loved going to Toronto where she'd graduated from university and been active socially in the late seventies. Quiet by nature and a lovely pianist, tailor and cook when she wanted to be, a university friend once told me, "Arlene doesn't say much, but what she says is worthwhile." She drew insight and energy from her relationships and surroundings and raised two beautiful children of whom she and Michael were very proud. We were lucky to have had her in our lives.