In Celebration of

Joan Rockingham

September 21, 1923 -  April 7, 2023

September 21, 1923 – April 7, 2023
Born September 21, 1923 in Herstmonceux, England to Alice and Thomas Wright. Died April 7 2023 at the age of 99, in Hamilton, Ontario.
Joan was predeceased in 2016 by her loving husband of 68 years, Eric, and her son Peter who passed in 2022. She will be deeply missed by her sons: Chris and Tony, her daughters-in-law: Marg, Anne and Pam, her grandchildren: Kate, Andrew, Jennifer, Julianne, Jamie; her great-grandchildren: Charlotte and Gregory, Ellie and Samantha, Claran, and Leela, and her many friends.

Joan will be remembered for many parts of her extraordinary life. Growing up in Frensham, and then Caterham, southern England, she trained as a nurse during World War II. She served first at the Atkinson Morley Convalescent Hospital in Wimbledon, and then at Westminster Hospital where she experienced the bombing of London from a window seat.

After the war, in 1948, Joan met a geologist on leave from his job in Nigeria, who she had known as a child. After a 6-week romance, and a month-long engagement, Joan and Eric were married and the newly-weds flew to Nigeria. During their 9 years in Africa, moving from west Africa to east Africa and back, Joan saw a lot of the countryside from mud huts and canvass tents as Eric carried out exploration geology and Joan travelled with him and continued her nursing work.

In 1957 the couple, now with 3 sons, ages 4, 6, 7, moved to Canada to allow Eric to continue his geology career. Joan and Eric first moved to Sioux Look-Out, Ontario, arriving in December, and experiencing their first Canadian winter. Later they moved with their family to a mine outside of Timmins Ontario, then to Toronto, and then to Vancouver. Joan worked with physically and mentally challenged children helping both Toronto and Vancouver set up volunteer organizations to support the children and their families. Later moves took them to Rio de Janeiro, Brazil; Darien, Connecticut; and Grand Junction, Colorado.

Eric and Joan were passionate travellers, and from their base in Grand Junction, where they retired, they travelled around much of the USA, visited family in Vancouver, Toronto and St. Catharine’s and flew frequently to far away lands.
In November 2015 Eric and Joan returned to Canada to spend their last years with their family. They lived in Hamilton at Caroline Place Retirement Residence. The family is taking this opportunity to express their gratitude to the staff at Caroline Place for their kindness and compassion.

In lieu of the flowers the family has kindly asked that you make a donation to Doctors Without Borders or Medecins Sans Frontieres.

Guestbook 

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Elvin and Carolyn Tufly (Friend and Neighbor)

Entered April 15, 2023 from Grand Junction, CO

Just yesterday we were remembering Joan and Eric as our neighbors here at Aspen Heights Townhomes in Grand Junction. Such an interesting and sweet couple. Always enjoyed our visits with them!! We hated to see them move back to Canada but knew they needed to be near family.

Mary Beth and Bernie Buescher (neighbor)

Entered April 15, 2023 from Grand Junction, CO

We lived on Golfmore Drive in Grand Junction when Joan and Eric lived there. It was always fun to hear Joan's delightful accent when we visited about goings on in the neighborhood. So sorry to hear of the loss to your family of such a vibrant matriarch

Sharyl Peterson (Former pastor and friend)

Entered April 17, 2023 from Grand Junction, CO

I knew both your parents well, in the 11 years I served as Senior Minister at First Congregational UCC here in Grand Junction. They were interesting, thoughtful, intelligent, engaging human beings. I loved that when your Dad got irritated by something I’d done in the service that he thought was “too theatrical,” he was on my office doorstep the next mornin to discuss it! Joan was the quintessential “lady”. — and at the same time, incredibly tough, resilient, and creative. I loved, respected, and admired them both. They have been greatly missed here since their return to Canada, and I know will continue to be missed. Fondly, The Rev. Sharyl B. Peterson

Irwin and Penny Stewart (Friends.)

Entered April 19, 2023 from Grand Junction Colorado

We were so sad to learn of Joan’s death, but what an incredible life she led. As fellow Brits, we enjoyed both Joan and Eric, sharing chats about the U.K. our mutual travels and memories of ‘the good old days,’ and our friendship with John and Betty Dunning.
You have our deepest sympathy and wishes for happy memories in the years to come.
Irwin & Penny Stewart. (We met at a breakfast restaurant in Fruita, some time ago,)

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